What would you say to your younger self?

A letter to the 21 year old me. . .  


Don’t rush! God has a plan, sis!lol You cannot figure it all out yourself. Everyone that you have met in college were possible scammers except for a few.. ok 2 lol No shade. My time at Purdue wouldn’t have been as memorable, as life changing, & as fun if I didnt meet those ppl who they say... “The friends you meet in college are the ones you will have for a lifetime!” . . . & Then There were 2! You ladies witnessed my transition from college girl to grown a** woman lol THANK YOU! 


Tabia, The things that matter at 21 will not matter at 29! The things that hurt your feelings at 21 will not matter at 29! Ask God to mold you into the woman that you will become! In about 2.5 years you will get into a relationship with someone that you’ve already met!ha! & it will be the best ever! At 29 you will have been head over heels for 5 whole years in this relationship. . . wait on it!


Adulthood will treat you good! You will meet friends in your adulthood that you will click with over things such as Benihana, DQ, Donuts, Anthony Hamilton and so forth lol & some of true friends from childhood wont leave your side! You will also lose a few along the way BUT its all good! You will also be privileged and blessed to become a GodMom to your forever brista’s  baby! 


Fashion will always be one of your favorite things. . . you will always love it and blog and so on but at 28, you will have accomplished alot working in retail (have a bachelor of science degree from PURDUE in fashion merchandising, an InStyle Magazine Blog Feature, Fashion BombDaily Bombshell of the day feature, have been an Escada Intern, Giorgio Armani Merchandising Manager, GAP Talent Manager, & ADM at Nordstrom)! You will have learned alot 7 years post grad & retail experience. . . but during your 27th year of life. . . you will pray for a change and for God to guide you to where he wants you to go & in January 2018 just before your 28th birthday, you will end up working in Finance and you will love it! MAKE THAT COIN SIS! & Believe it or not. . . you will end up in school again to obtain your MBA in finance! 



Keep God first and miracles are going to happen!